看开。不一定就解开。
澎湃。其实一直都在。
奈无。使我学会珍爱。
原来我是把它冰冻了。
因为怕痛,因为不敢发梦。
深藏着在一块,用力学习爬出来。
如果不是祢,我早已不在。
如果不是你,我也不会爱 。
现在偶尔会开 冷藏的那一块
静静默默地捧在手怀
其实从来都不在,故他从不曾回来。

威廉是美国一家保险公司的首席执行官。
一天,他和妻子开车行驶在洲际高速公路时,发现汽油不多了。他在下一个出口驶离高速公路,找到了一个十分简陋的、只有一个油泵的小加油站停了下来。
他请这里唯一的一位工人为车子加油,自己离开车子去活动一下腰腿。
当他返回时,看见妻子和那位工人谈得正欢,他掏出钱包付款时,他们的谈话也停止了。他钻进车子,看见那人对妻子使劲挥手,那人说:
“能又一次看见你真是太好了。”
车子驶上公路,威廉问妻子:
“你们以前认识?”
妻子脸上满是笑容,听了一会才说:“我们是高中同学,曾经约会一年多呢。”
威廉得意地笑了,说:“幸好你没嫁给他,如果你和她结婚,你就会成为一个小加油站工人的妻子,而不是一位首席执行官的夫人。 ”
妻子扭过脸面带笑容,
一字一顿地说:“亲爱的,如果我和他结婚,他就会成为一个首席执行官,而你会是一个小加油站的工人”
A lot of us are 'myth-informed' about love and marriage. The myth of 'a perfect marriage' is widespread and dangerous among us. By setting up unrealistic expectations, impossible dreams and magic thinking, it misinforms, misleads and disillusions us, preparing us to walk away the moment our fantasy clashes with reality. Only the truth can make us free to find fulfilment in our marriage. For the next few days let's explore a few of these myths.
Marriage myth 1: The myth of 'viral love,' insists that love is caught, much like a virus. 'Some enchanted evening' when you happen to be in the right place at the right time, it will zap you. You'll 'catch the bug' and enter a lifetime of unending bliss! The trouble is, when we're worn out taking care of three kids, two jobs and a second mortgage, the 'virus' subsides. In the whirlwind of dishes, nappies and daily routines, something has to give. So romance vacates centre stage and reality takes over. When it does, we confuse romance for true love and mistakenly think it has moved out and that we need to follow it. The truth is, love does not die because romance bows to reality. If two people who once 'fell' in love are willing to 'stand' together in love through the challenges and opportunities of family life, romance can grow again, stronger and more resilient than ever. Love based solely on romance doesn't work when 'for better' meets 'for worse.' Romance based on a decision to love 'till death us do part' is the only love that's dependable, consistent and trustworthy. Romance brings us together, this kind of love keeps us together!